Tough Love

This morning, I watched Tough Love on VH1. If you're not familiar with the show - a matchmaker and his mother assess the reasons why a group of women can't find love and help them work on their issues. I want someone to do that for me (see previous post) but I don't want to do it on TV. I've been telling people for years that I just want some guys to watch me be me and give me their honest first impressions. My friends seem to think I'm crazy but that's exactly what they did on the episode I saw today. Three guys gave their honest impressions of the women from just watching them walk and also in a speed dating situation. They were surprisingly accurate. The furthest I've gotten was a friend's bf saying that I appear "uptight" but he wouldn't go into any more detail. What's the big deal? I just want some honest feedback. I know I'm communicating something and I would like to know what that is. Somebody help me out without having to go on VH1.

There's language in her eye, her cheek, her lip,
Nay, her foot speaks; her wanton spirits look out
At every joint and motive of her body.
~ William Shakespeare